One of my favorite quotes is from my friend and mentor Tim Elmore, “Build bridges of relationships that can bear the weight of truth.”  I can’t guarantee the outcome of any situation, but I can build a relationship with that person that will allow me to speak truth into their lives at crucial moments.  Relationship building takes time and the sooner you start the better, especially with children.   With Louci, I choose to give her something now rather than take something away in the future.  Don’t read past that too fast…at this age (12 years old next month), asking my daughter to remain pure and save herself for marriage is a gift…instead of waiting until she is 16 and target practicing with my AR-15 in the yard as her date pulls up (I may still do that too!).  Being intentional is being purposeful and proactive, not being perfect.  I am far from perfect but I know a day will come when I will wonder if I did everything I could for the people in my life and I know I can at least say I was intentional!